I’ve been divorced twice. I don’t tell many people that because I’m worried they will judge me. I’m now happily married and I know everything happened for a reason. But I still struggle with the scarlet letter hanging around my neck. Some day I hope to be brave enough to tell my story so it can remind people to judge less and love more. Don’t we all have choices we look back on and think “OMG-what was I doing?!?” In all honesty though, if we had made a different choice, we wouldn’t be who we are today. We need to love ourselves too.